About 2 years ago my ex-wife and I ended our relationship and the annulment was finalized not too long after. Our marriage didn’t last more than a year after I found out I was being used for benefits and saw such a dramatic change in her treatment towards me literally the day we got married. Time has passed and I’ve completely moved on from that and met the woman of my dreams a year later at a concert. I truly wasn’t looking for anything serious but she asked me out on a date and time has been amazing ever since. We’ve since moved in together and get along so well. This woman makes me laugh till I get tears in my eyes and loves/treats me the way I’ve always dreamed. We’ve spoken about what a life together would look like and i literally feel sparkles inside me when I imagine her walking down the isle, being the mother of my child, and building a life together. Thinking about it now as I write this solely puts tears of happiness in my eyes. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up in August and I have started planning to propose to her. My plan would be to be engaged on our 2 year anniversary, & marry on our 3rd anniversary but I don’t know if this is crazy or not. My first marriage was pretty much an embarrassment and I regret to say that it was a mistake since the marriage didn’t make it past a year. Before finding out that I was just a way to help her out financially with the military I completely was left feeling numb. During that marriage I had found out that she disclosed to my sister that she had no plan to make anything work out with me as she was never even attracted to me. I truly gave my all throughout that entire relationship but couldn’t take it any longer especially after finding out she wasn’t faithful to me. That relationship ended December 2021 and less than 2 years later I feel that I truly have found someone that gives me the love I deserve. Am I crazy to be considering marriage despite how crazy I am about her?

I feel like I mind receive judgment from friends and family and worry that they might think it’s too soon. My entire family absolutely loves her and her family also adores me. They all think I’ve scored big time with her and it makes me feel content with my choice, but again, am I crazy to be engaged 2 year after my divorce and getting married 3 years after?