Dont know how to feel

He hides things on social media ..:deletes messages and texts …saves numbers under different names…My husband doesn’t feel the need to communicate with me about anything really. He says imma grown man all the time. He has been giving a coworker a ride from work every morning but never told me he was car pooling. So I’m thinking he headed straight to work. Never knew. It's a guy that he works with and also told our marriage business to. My husband lied to me last year and was getting a ride to and from work from a female. He lied and told me it was a dude dropping him off. He swore to tell the truth going forward and to stop downing me to his co workers and telling our personal business but painting me out to be the bad guy. I want to trust him but he got upset that I even wanted to know he was driving the dude he works with like why you want to know imma grown man I do what I want I don’t have to answer to you.

Just hurts my feelings he doesn’t want to work on our trust and respect. Idk what to do