Husband and Help

A little back story. My husband (25) and I (25) have a almost 3 year old daughter together and when I was pregnant we agreed on him being the provider and I stay at home and take care of our child and the house. With that being said he hasn’t held down the same job for more than 6 months, went back to college 4 hours away from us, we had to sell our house bc we couldn’t afford it and move in with my parents until we hopefully get family housing at the college. Before going back to college he had no job for a couple months, he doesn’t have a job now but he does go to school full time.

Even before we moved into my parents house I could never really count on him to help me with our daughter even basic everyday things but it seemed like it was easier to do it all on my own when we didn’t live with them. I know we agreed on me taking care of everything else but I feel like there’s just some things you should want to do and help with, with your own child. I’m not saying he just ignores us or doesn’t help at all but it’s a complete shock when he does help. Anyways how do I deal with this? I don’t want a divorce but idk what to do