Anyone’s husband go off about dumb random crap like this

I’ve been married 6 years. My husband hardly goes around my family except for literally Christmas dinner. Possibly thanksgiving. And that’s just usually my sisters/aunts/uncles etc.

2 years ago my grandpa passed away. My husband….at the funeral….gets pissed and went off on me in the car right after (with my daughter and niece in the car) because “a guy” sat down next to me and “tried to talk to me” actually he said flirting with. I told him who it was and that was family. He doesn’t even go around half my immediate family and it had been so many years already so how the hell would he know any further family members down the line that didn’t come around much anymore anyway? He’s like no you acted weird. Hmmm maybe because you looked pissed and I couldn’t figure it out?! I told him how I was related to him and not also that but my papaw “pretty much raised him” cause he was with my uncle a lot that was his age and he was killed years back so he would periodically pop in and just see my grandpa. It only made sense for him and anyone else to pay their respects. Then said family member left the funeral home with someone I was close friends with (she actually used to be an almost aunt) and she’s married so I said that upset me BECAUSE it was at my papaws funeral and it wasn’t a matchmaking time plus, she was freakin married. So two years later, today… 2 whole years later my husband comes home from work in a bad mood and I’m like okay? He asks me, “who was at your uncles” I said I don’t know who visits my uncle?! He said well i just drove by and it looks like the dude from your papaws funeral! Is that why you’ve been going down to your moms so much to meet him outside or something??? Me—- completely blank cause that just sounded so insanely stupid.

But This morning he acted like i stopped somewhere for x amount of time just because Life360 said so. (It sure didn’t reflect that on my end lol) I did lose service for some reason which could have temporarily altered the data but my sister works at the place I had an appt at… and was early for that appt even so I certainly wouldn’t have been early OR on time had I stopped anywhere for even 1 minute. He then was like we’ve not had sex in a few days Blah blah and you’ve not gave me a BJ (so sue me I had lip filler for the first time ever and wanted it to settle and stop being sore before I had any friction or pressure on them) buuuuut he’s full of it because I tried twice just the past couple nights to initiate intercourse and he said he didn’t feel good. So.

I have never did one thing or ever cheated on him for him to act so insane like this especially over a family member that I don’t even speak to. He said, before he stormed off to the bedroom and shut the door to go pout and sleep, “your sister wasn’t even at work she was at home just then!” I said she got off at 3:00 today….. my appt was at 9:15. What the hell? So I let him try to sleep off his attitude for two hours and go in and talk to him with some sense, and he snaps saying I need to get out he didn’t tell me I could come in the bedroom he didn’t wanna see my face