Male sponge???

A little long but you need the story…

I was single for a year before I started dating someone. Our chemistry was so great but the sex, not so much. He couldn’t keep an erection and I got super dry within 5 mins.. literally. This has Never happened before so I thought in my year dry spell, “she” forgot how to work and I caused his loss of erection.

Skip ahead.. our relationship ended on good terms but I’m still in love with him. We just couldn’t make it work for more reasons than sex.

3 months later, I hook up with my “get over guy”…. NO LUBE NEEDED. And lasted for over an hour every time. He was my FWB for 6 months. Never once had a sex issue.

Skip ahead 5 months of no sex, I was hanging out with my ex bc I do still love him and we will always be friends… we Hooked up and within 5 mins, I was dry as the desert again…

It’s like his penis is a sponge and sucks ALLLLL of the moisture out of me…

Anyone else go through this? What’s wrong with his penis?