Husband leaving ?

Back in 2021 me and my husband had an agreement that he can go to school full time while I work. (I’m a travel nurse so the money is good) he stated that nursing school is hard and working and going to school would be beyond stressful. (I have done it and it’s NOT for the weak) anywho, I held us down and paid the bills until he graduated September 2023. We have a 1 year old as well that we had February 2023. (I was on maturity leave from February until September) I still held it down for us, etc. anywho, school has been over and he hasn’t worked. This is my fault because I still said that I would help with the bills since I made more. Anywho, he is still a CNA. We work for this company where you can pick up shift anytime, any day on this app and make money that day. The money for him ranges from $19-$25 as a CNA AND me as an RN $52-100+. I have told

Him that now that the baby is here im struggling a bit and I don’t want to work and be away for the baby. When I would mention to

Him to pick up shifts he tells me that it made no sense for him to do that since I made more money and I “don’t do anything but supervise people and sit all day” which in some cases when I work certain facilities, I don’t do much BUT not not all of the time at all that’s once in a blue moon but I’m still responsible of everyone at work, etc. plus I work the hospital at the ICU & that’s hard work! I don’t just sit around. Anyways, he’s not working or going to school. He. Is waiting on taking his Nclex which he has scheduled next month. Idk if it’s resentment but now I’m fed up and I keep telling him that I’m tired of working and that I’ve held it down for over 3 years. Since he’s been off from school, the house has been a MESS! Our rule was he keep the house clean for us all and I would work and pay the bills. They’re times I would come home and have to clean up myself which I think is very unfair because why am I cleaning the house AND working and taking care of the bills?? Our baby is only 1 years old so there is that stress too. I’ve been so fed up I’ve told him to leave but he just talks me out of it and doesn’t even clean up.. he half cleans up like he would vacuum ONE spot of the house and do 1 or 2 load of dishes but leave dishes still in the sink. Doesn’t wipe the counters, leave laundry in the washer for days etc. I’m fed up and I am thinking of telling him to pack up and leave but idk what to do I’m so torn.