Do u let your hubby or bf talk to female coworkers?

My husband (33M) works as a mechanic at Walmart auto center, well I was cool with him texting his female friend fine ok cool but then one night he was literally snapping her from when he got home, to when he went to bed so I was pissed.

She’s 22 and brings all the guys at the auto shop lunch..and there’s more to the story bc he went to a party and it looked exactly like the house he was at previously which was the female coworkers so I flip out. And now he’s saying he doesn’t have the gas money to come home tonight that he’s going to stay at his guy friends house. He took his instapay out already and I saw it so proof enough for me but it just doesn’t sit right. 🤦🏼‍♀️ idk if I’m overreacting or just crazy. Probably both idk.