Can I get your opinion please?

So my boyfriend was messaging other women not long after the birth of our baby. He wanted to stay together, promised to work on things. Hasn't made any effort at all. Im going to a birthday party so I suggested he come too and we spend some time together, try to reconnect.He said "I'll look after the baby and you can go out by yourself"

🤔 I was suggesting we spend time together so how does that work, he knows I've already arranged childcare. He's saying he wants to be together but his actions say otherwise! Seems to me he's checked out of the relationship, what do you think?

Edit: he was sending dirty messages, photos and videos of him pleasuring himself I thought that was tmi for the post 😂.