What resources are there for

What resources are there for parenting I am in desperate need of the super nanny I have a young boy age nine and he is rebellious and out of control he has hyperactivity ADHD he is saying he will do whatever he wants is slamming the doors in the house throwing everything down when he gets upset also when he has to do homework he will rip the book and assignment. When we say for example time to do homework, pick up the toys, bedtime routine brush teeth, shower he says I don't care I can do whatever I want and he has gotten so disrespectful the attitude the way he speaks to adults slamming doors

If you were raising him how would you help raise him