9dp5dt and spotting with cramps ..

Just venting and hoping for some encouraging success stories ..

I am currently 9dp5dt with our 11th embaby and for the first time ever after a transfer i have spotting before my beta (due monday 17th). Have had slight cramping also today but nothing major.

Tested on a cheapie on 7dp and this morning and both were bfn.

Just wondering if anyone has had a bfp this late and or if anyone has had spotting before a bfp beta test?

I was counting myself out this morning but the spotting is new so i dont know what to think.

Have had 2 early miscarriages but havent bled until after bfps so this us new ..

Any hope or reality checks (gentle please x) are welcome.