I am 26, and my husband is 27. We started dating about 10 years ago! High school sweethearts❤️

Backstory: I have never wanted children, and actually fear the chance of pregnancy. I am love my job of working with children, however never imagined me with my own kids.

Husband is the same way, he comes from a big family and never had the urge to be a father.

With that being said 2.5 years ago he got a vasectomy. We have kept this private obviously as it is not our families business what we do with our lives/ personal time. We couldn’t be happier with our decision and are loving our life together.

However, our families…. Our families continuously talk about when we have kids and it’s never a question to them of “if” it’s always “when”. We have expressed that we do not want children of our own but it doesn’t click with them. Both parents are already grandparents from our siblings kids but they constantly talk about it. I want to just tell them it’s not a possibility anymore, but it’s also not their place and they should have respect for our decisions of not wanting kids.

I’ve reached a point where I dread going to family functions because it will be brought up.. even though with my husband we are happier than we have ever been!

…sorry for my rant… I needed to get that out somewhere! Thanks for reading