Verbal abuse

I don’t even know what started all this.

We began our day off to a good start. Up until, he had a few drinks & liquor. We were suppose to go to a baby shower that didn’t work out I didn’t want to go because of how he was talking to me.

He literally was in my face, forehead to forehead as he was telling me things calling me fat and lazy.

I decided to leave to my friends for some space. But the whole time, he’s texting me…

He’s even telling me he’s hungry but also saying he will feed himself. Before I got home, I was in my car a while cause he was stilll texting me and that last message was when I came inside. His first comment was “there’s no food in your hands”. Like ha what.

He says he’s not abusive just because he doesn’t hit but like if this is any better??

It makes me sad because we had a good week and now today is shit. You can obviously tell he’s been drinking.

Btw, this is my husband. . . 70% of the time we’re good & the rest is like this. Most of the time I’m scared my neighbors will hear.

When we’re good we get along great. He helps me out with dinner and cleaning. He makes my coffee every morning. Most of the time he does the laundry.

But I also pay half the bills and go to work and school. I do most of the cooking / shopping

And I pay the bills once he sends me his half of the $. (Just a lil background)