His bm stays with him ??

I been talking to this dude for about 5 months . We been spending our days and nights with each other ever since we met . Rather if it’s a hotel or at my house .

He has his own house . But his bm and his twins stay there & her other 3 kids. He said he don’t wanna kick her out because of the kids . But he his working on eviction papers .

It’s been times , we would pull and he would ask her can she leave & she would go crazy & start fighting him . And throwing his stuff out.

She would go on Facebook saying stuff like “I’m putting you out your own house”

She work mornings , he would leave my house to go home to get dressed , while she’s not there , iguess he just tries to avoid her at all cost . But her kids still be there , her kids would call their mom and tell them my car outside and basically starting stuff.

(She been there 3 years before he met me , but he’s been single)

What would you do ?

You have any opinions? How long is this gonna go for ? Should I address him about anything ?

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I would run 🏃🏻‍♀️ I ain’t one for the drama and that’s all this will ever be lol. He ain’t ever kicking her out let’s be honest 😬😂

J.

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She sounds like a piece of work for sure. If you decide to have a relationship with this man, keep in mind that because of the kids, she will always be in the picture. Is this something you think you can deal with? Once she moves out, just take the relationship slow. She may not handle him being with another woman very well. Also, what are his plans for the kids after he evicts her? The kids need a stable home, so will he be taking custody of his 3 kids? If he does, that means it will mean a lot less time he spends with you. Is that something you’re ok with? I don’t mean to discourage you in any way, I just want you to think about how things would be if you decide on a relationship with him. I hear countless stories of women being stressed out because the person they are dating has a “bitter baby mama.” Just weigh out the pros and cons.

J.

J. • Jul 24, 2024
*2 kids. I realize I said “his 3 kids.”