Bf flaked on thanksgiving cause he’s FULL

Boyfriend texted me all week saying that he was going to come over for thanksgiving. He even asked me to make macaroni and cheese because it’s his favorite and to make egg salad which I did. I tell my whole family he is coming over, I even got READY so that when he comes I would look nice. He then says he’ll he over in a bit. Then he says “damn I’m tired but ok…” at that point it seems like I’m begging him to come cause it seems like he doesn’t want to. I then call him and say why are you making me beg for you to come? It seems like you don’t want to come. He then says you know what I’m not coming because I know how this is going to go. I see the attitude you’re in now. And I told him sure whatever excuse you can find to not come. And he tells me I’ll see you tomorrow when you come to my house.

I’m genuinely so pissed off and currently crying, because I was expecting him all day and I was even excited to see him. For him to say he’s in a food coma and not coming because of that? After I told my whole family he is coming over? Mind you he lives 15 minutes away. We have been together for 7 years and every other year during the holidays he has made me cry because he does something like this. I guess I’m just venting. I hate crying during such a happy time of the year.