Curious?

If someone has been waiting more than 5 years to marry a man because they have known him for almost 10 is she reaching too far? She has waited for so long and he uses other women to make her see him even more, does this mean they are using and abusing each other? Also if the woman will do anything like abuse another girl severely for him to give everything to her is she still reaching too far for him?

I mean a relationship is between those two people, are they really in a ‘real’ relationship with each other in the end or are they two people who are choosing just to abuse other people to give each other attention? Does this move anywhere for them in the end?

Do you think they will be together finally? Like married if they are messing around now?

Edit: not me abusing other women it’s somebody I know, I saw the relationship and thought it was so WRONG. I needed advice honestly tbh