Would you feel betrayed ?

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Would you feel betrayed if you found your husband’s friend consistently sending him pictures of half naked women? I’m talking about ass out females left and right. I feel so betrayed and confused.. the disrespect. The hurt. The confusion is real😭

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It would depend on how or if my husband was responding to them.  He can’t control what his friend sends him.

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Idk what these other girls are talking about but this would definitely be a no go in my house. He needs to respect you. You obviously have an issue with this and if you have any issue your husband is supposed to be on your side and validate you. Make you feel special and comfortable. I’d tell him “ tell your friend that your wife is uncomfortable with these pictures so please stop sending them” and if his friend does not stop at that point he’s not only disrespecting your relationship but your husband as well for not respecting his wishes and should be blocked. If you’re husband doesn’t want to block him then at that point he is disrespecting you. And you should at first tell him reverse “if my friend was sending jacked men with spedos and dick prints constantly how would you feel?” And if he still doesn’t get it then be direct and tell him “ I will not be with a man that does not respect me or my wishes” you need a husband that will prioritize and respect you. If he can’t tell one friend not to disrespect his wife, what’s he doing in the future ?that’s not what your looking for in a husband. People have different values that’s compatibility you have to find one with your same ones

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It’s rude. It should be dealt with. This happened to us. My husband had a guy at work start this nonsense and he respectfully shut it down. My husband is a truck driver and this coworker would sit at a plant, unloading, and perusing his phone for dirty pictures, then send them to my hubs.  I didn’t even know my husband had shut this down, until we were at a company picnic one day and the coworker made mention of “how special” I must be if my husband wouldn’t look at girly pics because he was faithful to me. I got the story from my husband later on. He told me he didn’t need that in his life. Your husband is not a victim. He can go as far as blocking his friend, if it matters to him enough. Just saying. The friend needs to grow up. He isn’t in seventh grade anymore.

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I would tell my husband that i don't like that he receives those photos so he needs to tell his friend to stop. Id make it very clear that i would need to talk to his friend if it doesn't stop. Id also ask your husband why he isn't telling his friend that he respects his marriage and to stop sending those photos on his own.

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The only person who can betray our marriage is my husband. My husbands friends have nothing to do with our marriage

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No. What someone else sends him is in no way him ‘betraying’ you.

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No.

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