Is my husband toxic?

I feel like he is but definitely want an outside opinion.

We don’t argue to often but when we do it’s over something stupid. So I’ve been sick last few days and he acts very annoying about it. Like third day I was sick when I told him I still don’t feel good he said “you’re always sick” but I’m not always sick. It’s actually been a while since I caught something. So me missed church service yesterday and his dad called him. He hasn’t called him back yet but figured that he prob called why we didn’t come to church. So he goes to me and asks “what’s wrong again so I can tell my dad why you’re not feeling good” so I got upset at him because I’ve literally told him the past few days what I feel sick with. (Watery eyes, runny nose, head throbbing, and sore throat) my throat sounds bad when you hear it. So I told him “I literally been telling you the past few days” and he flips out on me that I’m starting crap and etc. Goes on to say I just start drama all the time (I literally don’t feel good and just replied with that sentence I DID NOT raise my voice or get an attitude) but he flips out calls me name says some bad stuff said he’s only staring with me for the kids, looks at the kids and says “im gonna take you guys away from her” then says to my son “do you wanna mama to get a job so I can stay at home with you”

I HATE THE WAY HE TALKS ABT ME TO THEM I think it’s so toxic any slight argument I feel like he doesn’t CARE if they are around (two kids) and won’t keep his voice low and he cusses in front of them

Then he leaves to work kisses both kids says goodbye to them and then ignores me and leaves the house

While he was yelling and saying crap I kept my mouth shut (also he often tells me “shut that mouth”) and I was in tears which I’m sure he saw that but still choose to leave the house in anger