Third trimester feeling like crap?

Does anyone else in their third trimester just feel like crap about themselves l? i feel like I'm a bad mom because I'm tired and hormonal and sore all the time. i feel like a bad partner cuz I'm on pelvic rest so i can't be use for sex, I'm miserable, and uncomfortable, hormonal, tired, no fun? i just feel like utter crap about myself. on top of it i have to have a hysterectomy which i didn't really want, and I scared and anxious about that plus I'm not going to really even be a woman after the surgery. I'm excited for baby but feel like crap about everything else any advice?