She won’t let me see my kid

Long story short. I had a fling she got pregnant and I haven’t seen her since she was 6 weeks pregnant. I wanted her to get rid of it but she didn’t, the entire pregnancy she harassed me and made my life a living hell. Harassed and threatened my gf. Because I don’t wanna be with her. She had the baby early, and asked if I wanted to ft her I didn’t respond and I told her to stop. Texting me because she was being disrespectful. She kept texting me from different numbers updating me on the baby when I’ve told her I wanna dna test.

She tried to invite me to the birth and asked that I fly there although I agreed to go, which I didn’t respond because I didn’t know I was going to have to fly to be there for the birth, I was unaware she was out of state. Today, the baby is a week old and after receiving her text of telling me that she’s moving back in town and doesn’t want anyone to ask to see her kid I texted back telling her she’s disrespectful and that’s why I don’t check on the baby or reach out. I said if she wanted me to see the baby she’d act differently. She proceeded to call me a liar and told me not to contact her ever again. I told her if she wants me to see the baby she can call me if not I’m cool too. I told her I’m super cool.

The entire pregnancy my gf and her argued the entire time, my gf almost fought her, she said f the baby but only after she disrespected my gf kids first. I sat and didn’t say anything while my gf cursed her and the unborn baby at the time on the phone because she was just downright always disrespectful.

I think she’s jealous the day after she had the baby I took my gf on dates since her bday is right after, I also send her flowers to her job and gifts etc. I posted it on social media. And I ignored her texts asking me to ft her to see the baby because I didn’t wanna deal with her. She texted my gf saying “Respectfully, do not ever let that man text my phone a day in his life for any reason. He’s dead to me. If this is your man, keep him in check” and I haven’t heard from her since. I wanna see my kid and she’s keeping her from me. Am I the problem? She’s being bitter when all I wanna do is see my child. Plus I was respectful when I asked amidst everything she’s done to me and all the harassment.

Edit to add- everyone is saying I’m the problem but I’ve done nothing to her and she’s disrespected me and my gf. Everyone’s missing the disrespectful part if anyone treated u the way she does me you wouldn’t want to talk to her either. Point is I was the bigger person and told her if she wants me around, she’s more than welcome to FaceTime sme so I can see the baby if not that’s fine too. I have other kids and a life I’m not gonna beg. I’m fine either way