No plans for Valentine’s Day

izzy

I started mentioning Valentine’s Day probably halfway through January. It’s one of my favorite holidays because of all the cute decor, clothes, accessories, activities and everything girlie. My fiancé knows this about me. Last year he got me this beautiful necklace, a giant stuffed animal, and flowers. It was super sweet and I loved everything so I didn’t have different expectations this year. However so far we have no plans for Valentine’s Day. I’ve brought it up a few times each time trying to joke a bit so it doesn’t seem like I’m demanding he do something for me. I know the whole asking before Valentine’s Day is a newer thing mostly brought on by social media so I don’t mind that he hasn’t asked me yet. However I would think he’d at least give me an idea of what we might do on Valentine’s Day. So far nothing. He doesn’t even reply to me when I ask what we’re gonna do. I already got him his gifts they’re just hidden away for now but part of me wonders if I should give them now so maybe if he actually has no plans then he will see I made effort so he should too. He usually does things pretty last minute especially when it involves getting people gifts but idk I just feel like he’s actually not interested in doing anything. My feelings are kinda hurt rn. I just don’t know what to do because if I keep having to ask then it doesn’t feel special or like he actually wants to do it.

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