Boyfriend snoring

My boyfriend and I have lived together for 4 years now. He has never snored. Sometimes he will say I snore but he doesn’t say it’s loud or last long at all. Usually after a night of drinking. But he NEVER snored. For the last month or so he’s been snoring SO LOUD. Like so loud that our dog will leave our bed and sleep in the living room which he NEVER does. I told him he should see a doctor to see if it’s sleep apnea or something and the doctor said it’s not and to just “exercise “. Seems like a bs answer to me because he’s a rescue swimmer for the coast guard… like he works out every day and is very very fit. We got snoring nose patches, magnet nose openers, the WORKS. Everything!! Literally nothing works idk why he’s snoring all of a sudden. He RARELY drinks alcohol. Maybe a beer or two on a special day like Christmas but that’s it.

He literally told me a few days ago that if he’s being annoyingly loud to just push and shove and wake him up. So the next night I DID! And then he got mad!? I told him that’s what he literally told me to do because “I can’t physically hurt him” and he shrugged and I asked if he could please sleep in our spare bedroom for the time being till we figure it out. He got so mad because I’m “kicking him out”. Then he throws a whole parade saying that he pays for everything and he’s the “money maker” and that it should be HIS bed.

For one… yes he makes more money than me. I mean come on. He’s a rescue swimmer for the coast guard… OF COURSE he makes more money than me. But I’m not pulling in nothing! I work 2 jobs! Day job as a dermatologist and side job as a nail artist. I pull in about $1,500 a month on just my nail job. And that’s my SIDE job. Like I can afford to pay for the rent and utilities but his military benefits literally cover all of it plus extra. So it’s not even like he’s paying out of pocket for it?? We split everything else like food and dog stuff etc.

I’m so upset like he acts like my job and my well being isn’t important just because he thinks his job is the MOST important. Like I work too!! I get up at 4am everyday!

Just came here to vent honestly… I really needed it. The people in my life tell me I should cut him some slack because he has a very hard and demanding job. Which I do, and I’m always supportive, but I don’t believe that gives him the right to degrade me.