It’s a long one but I need help?

Okay, here is the backstory… I just made dinner and usually we sit down and watch a family movie while we eat. My BF was watching some interviews on the news I brought him his plate and got the baby’s plate ready. I sat down and asked him to put on Disney + he said yeah and he didn’t change it when he finally decided to change it I was already almost done eating and the baby started to get fussy at this point he was already changing it so I said it’s okay daddy is changing it daddy is going. He throws on some animal planet show and it’s on for about a couple mins he gets up pauses the show takes his plate and mine to the kitchen. He then gets water and makes his drink for the morning starts throwing away trash ( all unusual for him to do.) sometimes he does take my plate to the kitchen but it’s rare. He then walks past me and feeds the dog which he already did (he’s also taking his time on everything he’s doing.) I’m getting annoyed because I’m not sure what going on or why he even paused the show in the first place. So as he’s getting water for the dog I asked him for the controller so I can push play he then says nope you can wait. I give him a confused face and say wait for what? He said for him to sit down. (At this point I’m beyond annoyed but I’m trying not to let it get to me.) I ask if he’s upset because his answer is very short and sharp. He said nope (which I knew was a lie.) he then proceeded to take out the trash, turn on the air, use the restroom, then finally sat down. He then said see he was fine without the tv you made it seem like he was upset because I didn’t put something in fast enough. I was honestly in shock that he did all this just to prove a point. What would you call this behavior and how would you handle it.