Was what i said wrong?
Basically I did a whole day of meal prepping for the week for myself (lunches and breakfasts), I made sure to save some for my bf of course but he doesn’t like what I meal prep and I am going through a health thing so I really need to eat healthier meals. Meal prepping really helps me. Right now, my bf is unemployed and obviously the topic is very sensitive for him. Basically after I got done with meal prep, my bf asked me what I’m making for dinner. I said I didn’t have anything planned and then he said “oh it’s been such a long time since you cooked dinner for me….” This just got me so pissed off bc I literally made a whole meal the first day back of my work shift after being on a sick leave for him last week. I kind of snapped back like “well hey you’re not working right now so u should make dinners more often too.”
A couple hours later he got really mad at me saying my words were really insensitive and rude and he thinks I turn into a monster when I’m PMSing and when I’m not I’m super sweet. Like wait what? He said I said “u should make dinner every night since you’re unemployed.” I NEVER said that. I said what I said above 100%. Im just really pissed off and he’s wondering why I’m defensive and it’s because he’s putting words in my mouth like wtf??? I wouldn’t say “every night” bc I love to cook! I just was tired and wanted to relax tonight. I ended up apologizing and he said he wanted space. Like wait… guys wtf did I do so wrong here? Am I missing something? Please lmk if I was being a bitch lol.
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