Talking to my bf family

So I’m on the phone with one of my bf’s cousin. She said granny wants to know if you’ll be working because we had a conversation. She said just cause you’re pregnant, doesn’t mean you’re disabled. Which is true. It came out of left field in a sense. My bf had told them in conversations that I won’t be working. I wasn’t there to hear the convo. Just what my bf relayed to me and tells me not to worry I got us. I don’t mind working. I just haven’t found my niche all these years. I mean I love money and money gets you by.. so I mean I just want to get a job that won’t strip me mentally. Plus I want nice things and that comes with a job. My bf is freaking out because he said why are you even talking to my family about that stuff? It’s none of their business. You’re my woman. You don’t need to work. I don’t believe in my woman working. I got this. Which I agree in a sense. I’ve always wanted to be a house wife and take care of home. I also kinda feel pressured by his family to do right. And that’s perfectly valid for them to feel. I’m not against working and not against staying home either lol.. do yal think my bf was being dramatic or his family? Please don’t be rude. I’m asking for genuine advice.