is he getting tired of me? should I break up

Question

I am sick with an infection in one of my organs. it has caused me to be nauseous for a long time and now they are treating it with medication. this guy that I am seeing was really being kind about it asking how I am doing, checking in and calling me during the days when I was sick. but one day I was really really sick and on medication. I sounded odd on the call because I was shivering and couldn't really connect my thoughts and sounded really anxious. and I talked about heavy stuff like being emotionally abused by my parents. ever since he hasn't been texting me to check in, only when I text him first and he leaves me hanging on text. this has happened for a couple of days when we both had a convo about our texting frequency at thw beginning of dating, and agreed that we would text every other day. should I cut him off? I feel neglected during the time I need support most. also here was out latest text:

Answer

We don’t have enough context but based on what you’ve posted here, you’ve placed a lot on him recently. Clearly he’s concerned about his family and some type of weather event and you acknowledge it briefly then center yourself and your problems again.  If this is how you always are or have been while you’ve been sick then I can understand why he may be pulling back because he may feel like it’s one-sided. You talking about your parents being emotionally abusive is also a lot of trauma to place onto someone. Not sure how long you guys have been together but if you all are planning to be together long term, that is something that would’ve eventually came up but to hear about that while he’s worried about his family, idk if that was the right time. It seems like you’re putting a lot on his shoulders right now when he also has his own stuff going on too. I get you’re sick, but you don’t have to bring it up 24/7 either, it could be draining to listen to a “woe is me” conversation each time you talk to someone, especially when you have your own “shit” going on.

Answer

Honestly most people get tired of hearing the same thing over and over. He knows you’re sick. He knows you don’t feel well. At some point it becomes excessive and attention seeking because there’s nothing he can actually do to help your situation. The comment about how you’ve been crying everyday would’ve annoyed me too.

is he getting tired of me? should I break up

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