Would this situation turn you off?

You and guy been talking.

Guy presses you every week to hang out & you’re busy af. (A mom, in college & self employed)

Guy drives 2 hours WITHOUT NOTICE( almost 3) AFTER asking you yesterday if he can see you before Monday- you’re busy moving into your new spot and offered next week.

He continues to try to persuade you by “buying your time” and buying rings at James Avery etc.

You’ve only known guy since December & you’ve never met. This is NOT the first time he sends stuff or buys stuff in hopes of seeing you.

Regardless you’re still busy- but it’s the principle that he 1) didn’t listen and still came out here 2) thinks buying or sending stuff is going to sweep responsibilities away and 3) I feel objectified??