MY HEART HURTS SOOO BAD💔

I have a 22 y/o daughter. I have helped her throughout the years she has been disrespectful rebellious I tried to get her to do counseling I tried to give her resources to help her out she refuses to listen to me. She left me stuck with her car note(I put the car in my name) after she junk the car when I told her not to and had her set up to get a different car. And to this day she uses her not having a car as an excuse when she is the one that put herself in that predicament. By not paying the car note and junking the car after I told her you have to pay car note and to not junk car. She Now she is trying not to pay rent ( which is only 500) she refuses to communicate with me after I helped to get her off her court case and everything I have done to try and help her. I cannot do it anymore it keeps draining me the more I try to help. The issue is she has mentioned not wanting to live but refuses to get help. It’s so much more. I’m just a mama that has to let her be on her own and I don’t want her to struggle but she refuses to see the Blessing of having a mama that truly cares and in turn it’s draining me and placing me in predicaments of losing everything I have work so hard for for us.. I’m so torn I have told her she has to go I’m doing more harm then help by being a cushion. 💔😔