Hubby porn addiction and escorts

At first when we were dating we were open about both of us watching when the other wasn't around. Wasnt an issues because it was just to get off. fast forward we are married i found a whole lot of porn on his twitter, and even i found out he even watches in my presence, he dims the phone light and low volume and watches. He was texting escorts etc it was a whole lot and i was deeply hurt.

Confronted him and he cried and said he was addicted since he was a kid. I asked why he dant open up to me all this time, he wasnt comfortable. This addiction was an everyday thing watching porn for about 3hours etc and going on escorts sites and looking for women near him. He said he never went. It was just curiosity. One time he looked for escorts when i couldn’t have sex with him because i was sick, we were on holiday.

So i said okay maybe see a therapist, he dant want any help he said he would stop by himself. He ddnt want my help. Even blocking sites or removing twitter he refused. It really hurt me. Wanted to be his accountability partner but he dant want. I found he is watching behind my back.