My bf is worried about me working and trust..

Idk how to simplify this and make things short but these are some key points he mentioned:

• he shouldn’t have to do all of that. (Implying us going to aquarium, Easter hunt with me him and my daughter isn’t his role cause he’s not her dad.. weird!) I told him I don’t need to do what I do either cause there’s no writing saying I should! Like I’m not his wife, mom therapist, I clean this house, and I cook sometimes and I’m in charge of laundry and I still buy groceries household items PAY RENT he mostly gets thing from Amazon buy food and take us out…

• He doesn’t know how I make money or where it’s coming from. He thinks I don’t work and I don’t want to work and expect me to work as hard as he does. (Mind you i am 30 weeks pregnant with his baby and I have been independent and doing things on my own before him!) I woke up around 11am this morning and he tells me I’m sleeping long and might need to stretch. I literally woke up 5am this morning to get groceries and pack them away! Took out the trash, I cooked yesterday and did laundry and had to get my daughter ready for school and take her with my huge belly and you’re questioning my sleeping???!!!??

• he says there’s a lot of gray area, he can’t trust me he wants passwords to my phone. I do have Face ID on my phone cause oh idk it’s MY phone and I pay phone bill and it’s a feature update that i wanted to use !!! It also just adds privacy it’s not like I’m cheating or going to I have literally no interest in doing that. On the other hand.. on his phone he has been texting multiple girls and I saw that atleast twice!! How he wants my password and access to my phone like I’m the one who broke trust??? Maybe I don’t trust him because he has been making himself untrustworthy since early in the relationship!

I feel like I’m going crazy, and idk if the relationship is worth staying in. AI said I’m hoping he would change which is true but it’s ok if he won’t change he can just leave me alone from now! I’m thinking he doesn’t really love me if he feels I need to contribute equally financially in the relationship. If I was a man and I loved my partner i would do anything to make her feel safe and respect me and work hard to provide for the relationship maybe our visions don’t align but certain relationships work for a reason. Idk what to do atp.. what do u think?