SAHM who never goes out or gets true alone time

My husband is the breadwinner and our kids both attend school and we have a pet. The expectations he has for me it seems are: 1)go to gym or workout daily 2)clean the house 3)make all the meals 4) take care of the kids (which ill do duh) 5)be a teacher to our oldest(who has no homework he just wants him studying) 6) taking care of pet 7)keep yard clean and cut. I get hes 100% money earner but im fricking tired and have stopped doing some housework because he never noticed when i actually did it only when i.stopped. im not forcing our kid to sit and do assignments i make when i have other shit to do or just want to relax. I do 100% house work and 90% hands on with kids/pet. He goes out some weekends and even has plans to go out of townfor a weekend for some event. I want to demand a weekend to myself because im resenting him badly. When i complain he goes ok why dont you get a job and i stay home? Like i cant find a job that pays as much as his. Sorry ranting. Nobody in real can talk to.