Am I being pushy and unreasonable or are my feelings valid? Read post:

Just venting because I have nobody to talk to. My child’s dad and I split up almost a year ago and have been living separately. I live in a small apartment and he has a house. We’ve been seeing each other again for the past few months and things have been going good, I found out shortly after we started seeing each other again that I’m pregnant with our 2nd child. It was not planned but we aren’t too upset about it. We’re having a girl and are pretty excited. We talked about it and are both on the same page. We both agree that it would be best to move back in together and continue working on our relationship and family throughout the pregnancy. His house is bigger than where I live and overall has more room for our growing family. But the thing is, after I moved out his buddy and buddy’s girlfriend got evicted from their place and my bf gave them the spare room in his house. He told them they could stay for 6 months until they figured something out. Well they’ve been there for 7 months now and still no sign of moving and I can’t move back in until they’re gone because there’s literally not enough room for everyone. They are also having a baby so that’s just too many people in a 2 bedroom house😅 I told him I’m not moving in until I know our kids will have their own space but the roommate situation is just putting everyone on hold. He always complains about how messy they are and how they don’t contribute to any necessities around the house, they avoid paying their part in rent, don’t help with the bills etc so I told him he needs to tell them it’s time to go since they were aware they only had 6 months and it’s been past that, plus we need the bedroom for our other child. They aren’t even on the lease and don’t get mail there he just lets them stay there in exchange for a small amount of rent which they don’t even pay some months. He told me he would talk to them, well the other night he told me he’s giving them until July to move so 3 more months on top of the 7 they’ve already had🥲 that’s 3 months before I’m due and I just don’t wanna worry about packing, moving, and unpacking in my third trimester. I’ll be big and miserable, probably panning a baby shower by then, etc. like we’re kinda on a ticking clock right now it will just be so hectic. I’ve been wanting to move back in since I found out I was pregnant months ago but am stuck waiting on his roommates to move out first. I told him the sooner I move in the more time we will have to get things settled and just focus on preparing for baby but I’m starting to feel like he’s being way to lenient with his friends. I understand he wants to help them out but at the end of the day our family and kids should come first, you should worry about accommodating space for me and our kids instead of your roommates. We can’t exactly afford to keep paying 2 rents, 2 utility bills, 2 WiFi bills etc because we’re still living separate when we should be putting money back for the baby😅 it’s just stressing me out and I’m beginning to get impatient. Am I just being a bitch and rushing things or is it valid to feel this way?

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