Am I overreacting ?

I’m literally always stuck at home with 3 kids. I’m a stay at home mom. That’s my job, my husband thinks. I’m all the time cleaning up the house, just for him to invite his people here without even asking me, just to clean up their mess.

Yesterday, my SIL took my two kids and I just had my one year old. I told my husband I wanted to go shopping with my daughter and if I could have some money. He was about to give me $50 and I didn’t take it.

$50 wouldn’t even fill my tank up. I was almost empty. He gives me $1,000 a month for 3 kids and myself which isn’t enough but he thinks it is. He gets mad at me when I tell him I don’t have anymore. I’m also using that money to prepare for another baby. I’m 28 weeks pregnant.

I’m tired of being treated like a kid. I’m suppose to be his wife. He didn’t give me anymore money because I’m suppose to still have some money. I told him about inflation, but he doesn’t care.

He gets mad at me for spending $150 on groceries, so I have to try and hide the receipt and act like I got a awesome deal.

He gave his mom like $1,000 on mothers day and told me my mothers day gift was when we are out with his mom and aunt

I’m furious. I want to leave this house so bad. It’s like it’s my personality at this point 😭