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Me and my boyfriend are planning on having a child, but not yet. This morning i started throwing up, i have very tender breasts, and my entire body aches. We have been having inprotected sex, but ive been on the pill faithfully for about 2 months now. Im scared that if im pregnant, hes going to be angry because we already had a plan for that. And im scared hes going to think i trapped him because hes had it happen to him before. What do i do? I know hes going to react negatively to it, only because we arent entirely ready yet.

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I would take a pregnancy test, but just remember that birth control mimicks pregnancy symptom and tricks your body into thinking its pregnant so you don't ovulate.

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You need to test... Even though you are on BC, there are possibilities of getting pregnant.  Especially if it's a low dose...Try not to fret until it's confirmed.

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I've never heard of birth control mimicking pregnancy symptoms.  Esp on the 2nd month and the throwing up part. If it was gona make her sick I'd think it would in the first week. Idk how long you've been 2gtr but if you've only been on the pill 2 months for the first month he should have been wearing a condom. Idc how many men say i can't feel anything w it, they can or they wouldn't cum. He knows the consequences as well as you.

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First things first.... Take a test. If it comes back positive, then you need to talk to him. Secondly, this may very well be your body adjusting to the bc.. I had the same thing for 3 months when I was on it. Don't stress too much about it tho, because if you are just adjusting, you're pushing your period off longer. Try to calm down and when you talk to him, let him know how much of a surprise it was for you as well. Things happen, and unfortunately planning doesn't always go the way it's supposed to, even tho it would be a lot easier if it did!

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This happened to me to the "T." Turned out I was pregnant, it wasn't pretty at first he was constantly blaming me for getting pregnant. But I put my foot down and let him know that I wasn't going to be insulted for something we both decided to do--sex-- and those would be the consequences. I would honestly talk to him and let him know what you are feeling (symptoms wise) and just let him know you don't know a for sure answer yet and that all you need is support. 
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​P.S. I'm now married to him and have a beautiful daughter. Wouldn't change anything for the world.

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I think you need to be honest with him and let him know that this is as much as a shock for you as it is for him. If he truly loves you he won't be angry with you. It is understandable for him to be shocked but he should see that if you are pregnant it took both of you to make that happen. Also take a pregnancy test.  they can be pricey but the dollar store has them and they work just fine. Good luck ?

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