Die ingrown hairs diiieee

Hi girlsss 
​I am soooo fed up with these damn ingrown hairs.... I have some on my underarms but mostly i have ingrown pubic hairs :( 
​They're driving me mad cuz i cant leave them alone
​And i see them under my skin... And they become like a ball 
​And then when i pick them... Thats it im literally scarred for life cuz the damn scars wont ever go 
​Anyone else experiencing ingrown hairs? I wanna destroy their existence 
​Please help