Soooooooooo I’m not his type 🤷‍♀️

So matched w a great guy off tinder or seemingly thought. We randomly messaged here and there

Tonight he said

I’m not looking for anything serious, I don’t want to hurt you but I’m not sure what I’m looking for. A hookup situation would be nice!! If this makes you uncomfortable I understand

Yet his profile states

I’m here to date and find someone to potentially marry! I am not looking for a hookup or sex only type of deal I enjoy the outdoors, camping, hiking, kayaking, etc let’s go on an adventure together!

My tinder even states I’m not looking for a hookup situation or a situationship.

So I messaged him and I’ll upload that here

But I know it means he doesn’t see a relationship with me per my past experiences.

I don’t understand why men only see me as a fuck buddy I don’t discuss sex, send seductive or nude pics, if men ask I decline. I have worked on myself sooooo much these last 3 years and been in therapy for 2 years. I’m soooo over these types of men. I desire something real, I just wanna cry 😭 I don’t get it. I just don’t 😭😭😭😭

My last serious relationship was 19 months ago which I am 100% healed from.

I have so much to offer the right person.

I have a great job, own my own place, independent, can carry intelligent conversation, kind, loving, compassionate, loyal, honest on and on

It’s like men see me and think oh she wants to FUUUUUCK

I don’t dress trashy or show cleavage or much skin

Sure I have flaws who doesn’t but daaang 😥😥

Have you ever dealt with someone who only saw you as a potential fuck not a relationship?