Lost my virginity to my 5yr bf who is bad at sex.

So I’m 26 and currently in a relationship of almost 5yrs. He’s my first bf and my first kiss! Well, about a month ago we finally had sex. It was my first time but he’d had partners in the past. I was actually excited about that because he’d know what he’s doing. But I’m surprised to find out that he absolutely does not. I know I’m no professional being new to this but I’m so confused as to what he trying to do during. Doesn’t keep a rhythm? Pulls out too far?….is just not hitting any spot. So I’m not feeling anything. So I’ll get on top to take control and still nothing! I feel I’m trying everything and trying to keep rhythm but nothing is working. And his penis is a good 6-7inches so it’s not his size. But we’ve been having a lot of sex and let’s just say I have not felt any pleasure whatsoever ever at all up to this point. I’ll be vocal with him during and it doesn’t work. He tries to go down on me and it doesn’t feel good. Tries touching me and it doesn’t feel good. Nothing is feeling gooooood. So what do I do? Are there videos he could benefit from? A diagram? Idk lol but he enjoys the hell of out it while I just do my thing and watch. I want to be able to enjoy it with him. I waited 26yrs and this is not what I thought it’d be. I get women can’t cum with just penetration and that’s not even what I mean. I’m just simply getting ZERO pleasure. And it’s sucks. Helppppp