Shit sucks

Heyyy y’all! I’m writing here because I don’t have anyone to talk to about it. I have been in a relationship for 10 years and it breaks my heart feeling like we are coming up to an end. We have 1 child together. He expressed how he’s lost himself trying to make me happy and I hate that for him. I told him I support him finding him again and finding what makes him happy. He expressed that to me after I mentioned we haven’t been intimate in a while. I am very affectionate and I’m longing to feel desired again and needing some bomb D! It’s like he’s turned off completely and he has no desire for sex. I get it when it’s a lot on your mind but damn! Idk what to do but I’m done putting pressure on him about it. I also don’t feel like I should have to please myself when I sleep next to him every night but constantly rejected when I try to initiate. Totally confused and he’s started to feel like a room mate more than anything.