4 year Old ASD signs?

Anyone familiar with ASD please comment.

Not sure if this applies or is just learned behavior. I made sure my then toddler understood that keeping things clean and tidy is very important. She’s more particular at home where her brothers also share toys, so maybe this is her trying to control what her toddler brothers can and should play.

She won’t stand the mess, she makes sure it’s all tidy and in their place. She does give her Brothers designated toys. She wants her sleeping blanket straight. She’s a bit sensitive to loud music. She doesn’t mind to play alone, has found a best friend.

She’s particular and has a precise idea about what she wants and how she wants it and gets upset when it won’t go according to her desire. She’s a big charmer and a great negotiator.

Although she doesn’t have all the classic symptoms of ASD, we are speculating some of her “quirks” are. Your thoughts are greatly appreciated