Reviving interest in marriage?

Question

We’ve married for 2 and a half years. Have a 1 1/2 year old. My husband is such a wonderful, amazing, sweet man. His heart is so beautiful and pure. We are happy and our marriage is healthy. We never have arguments or fight. We have a good sex life as well. 
However I’ve noticed something that bothers me. When my husband and I were dating, he constantly showered me with loving words, (specifically terms of endearment) and he acted like I was the most wonderful thing that ever happened to him. I also treated him this way and haven’t stopped. 
However I noticed he doesn’t call me those sweet names anymore. There seems to be an overall boredom or loss of interest on his end. 
He still treats me with all the kindness and love in the world. I’ve just noticed that maybe I’m not as exciting to him as I was to begin with. 
What can I do to spark his interest again? To make him as crazy about me as before? 
We did have an argument once almost a year ago, that changed our relationship somewhat. It was the first and only time we’d ever had such a disagreement. We both said some hurtful things. We forgave each other and worked through it. But I did notice things aren’t the same since. It was a big theological disagreement, (we are Christians) where I really thought he was off his rocker. It was going to affect our family negatively. 
I initiate sex half the time, he initiates the other half. 
I know physical attraction isn’t what makes a marriage last. But I know men can’t help paying attention to physical things. I try to be clean and put together. I didn’t gain much with my pregnancy. My hair did darken from blonde to brown, I do know he loves blonde hair - I offered to get highlights but he says he loves it the way it is. My skin changed and I have more acne. I’ve tried about everything under the sun to treat it. I am more exhausted now keeping up with a child and don’t appear as peppy. I am sick a lot too due to a health condition. 
What can I do differently?

Answer

When’s the last time you had a date night? Just you two?

Answer

Communicate with your husband, that’s what you need to do differently instead of us. What can we do to bring the spark back to our marriage, you used to be all lovey-dovey and excited to see me or vice versa, have we lost the spark? And what can we do to bring it back Date nights, you no longer complimenting me like you used to terms of endearment things that used to make me feel great and appreciated, you stopped doing it. Why is that? I know ever since we had that fight last year, things have changed between us, what can we do to get back to how we used to be. Maybe some marriage counseling or
 Therapist, or maybe you just don’t look at each other the same anymore respect has gone out the window, where you used to have him on a pedestal of amazement, that’s been diminished, you probably felt he would never hurt you and once he did you no longer looked at him the same. Maybe some couples counseling might help. Maybe telling him what you need and what you require to make you feel good about the relationship, reassurance, whatever it may be. I don’t think it’s anything that you’re doing wrong, maybe he’s feeling the same way as what I’ve already said maybe he’s looking at you differently since that argument. Maybe things have been tarnished maybe he no longer looks at you the same. But you need to get to the root of the issue as to why he stopped doing what he used to do. Is it that he’s gotten lazy and he’s already got you so he no longer has to make the effort things are comfortable things are routine and boring, maybe you need to change things up every Two weeks have a date night every two months take a weekend away every two years take a week away or maybe every week or whatever you guys can manage. I hope things get better. I wish you the best of luck. If that is the only thing where you have a complaint, then that’s what you need to talk about. If it’s other things that you haven’t mentioned, then those things also need to be addressed I feel we are no longer connected like we used to be, whether that is mentally or emotionally or physically whatever it may be. I think we both need to make an effort in this area. I think we both I feel we that way he doesn’t feel accused or it’s his fault or whatever it may be because it’s you and him together on the same team against the problem not you versus him or who has to be right or get their way, because if that’s the case, nobody wins. That’s your ego talking. And when it comes to marriage, you both need to put your egos aside and figure out the root of the problem and how to resolve it and keep moving forward. Or if it’s not possible, then some counseling I wish you the best of luck.

Reviving interest in marriage?

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