Am I the sneaky link? Or is life just “life-ing”?

Hi,

I have a hook up relationship with a man. At the start of us hooking up he was in the process of moving an hour away. When he moved, I feel like his text message response time became very slow… sometimes responding back days later.

He would always apologize and state he’s been busy, etc. A few months ago, he had two deaths in his family, and his response time to text or us linking for sex became wayy slower. Once again, he would apologize and state life has been life-ing…

At the on-site of us hooking up, I was not on bc, but we both agreed that it would be wise for me to get on bc, so I did. My hopes were we would have sex like 3-4 times a week since I started the bc, but that was not the case.

Fast forward, he came over a few weeks ago and I noticed he didn’t have my number saved, I didn’t question it… but I just thought it was kind of eerie.

So with that being said, do y’all think I’m the sneaky link or that life have just been lifeing with him?