Why I don’t get it

Let’s see here, so let’s say you have a partner. Your partner isn’t very romantic. He doesn’t need much love either.

He texts me: good morning.

He texts other girls at work: good morning girls.

He calls horses and other animals beautiful, but never you.

Do you honestly think that is very respectful to your partner to never call her beautiful or pretty. No words, and use your government name all the time?

I don’t get much of my primary love language at all bc he doesn’t find it important in any way shape or form. He doesn’t care to fill me with love. Now when he wants his dick sucked or something like that he thinks he can get it from me whenever he wants. However I always end up with BV even if he pulls out. I’m sick of stinking. He calls me dude, bro, or my government name. I said something to him about all this but he just called me petty.

He acts like he don’t know how to be a partner. He knows. He got me in the first place but now almost 3 years later, it’s still a nightmare. He doesn’t fill my cup, and I’m wishing I can talk to someone else who does call me beautiful and all this stuff.

So how can I get him to think of me as a romantic partner? He doesn’t have to show off animals or whatever to feel loved. He even takes selfies with the pigs and smiles, I don’t have many pictures of him even smiling. I’m just sick of it, he doesn’t find love languages important at all, and I do. I think it’s very important to know how your partner shows or needs love.

This is why we have so many issues in our relationship because he can’t take 5 mins out of his day to even read an article on love languages at all. He’s not trying and is putting more effort being happy with animals. Idk what to even do this sounds deranged as hell.