Do you consider this cheating??

Question

Just recently discovered my boyfriend watching porn on my lunch break and has hid it from me for a year and a half. When we first started dating I told him my stance on it which is that I consider it cheating. What is y’all opinion? Should I forgive him even tho he knew my stance and did it anyway in secret?

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Cheating is whatever the people in a relationship discuss and agree is cheating. Did you two come to an agreement? If you did, then yes. If you didn’t, then no. This would not be cheating in my relationship.

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If you consider it cheating you need to stand on that and break up with him

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Your opinion is your opinion. He knew your boundary on it, I’m guessing he agreed since y’all stayed together? So he crossed a boundary of yours. Either stick to your boundaries or don’t and if you don’t then you can’t be mad in the future if he continues watching porn imo.

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I mean I used to really struggle with this but more so because my husband was like addicted to it and it created a lot of insecurities because we weren’t having sex often. But things got better when we discussed it and he made other life choices. Now I don’t care unless we’re in a rough spot with sex. I would just say to talk it out again but if it bothers you too much I would leave.

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Instead of going through the debate if he is cheating or not.. Join in with him while he is watching. Porn is a great way to tell what your guy likes and is into. Maybe you can get some ideas and blow his mind the next time y'all decide to get nasty. 😜😘🥰🥵 Maybe surprise him the next time you catch him watching it by giving him oral and taking let your imagination do they rest. 💃🏽🥵 
Good luck!

Do you consider this cheating??

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