BFF Problemos

So I live with my bestfriend and both of our children. My bd is in another city for work. I don’t have a a car at the moment so I’m stuck in house. Before I had my child I used to watch my friends kid all the time. It got to the point I was the one doing homework w her, taking her to book fairs, feeding her almost every day on my dime. It was never a problem and still isn’t. However my friend started to take advantage of it and would invite me over to “hang out” then leave in the middle of night to see her guy friend. I didn’t mind until it seemed like she only wanted to hang out so I could watch her kid so I stopped staying the night but NEVER stopped helping her out.

So fast forward I have a kid now. Anytime I ask her to babysit she asks a thousand and one questions and says she will only babysit if I’m going to work not to see go see anybody and that I don’t need to see anyone late at night because she claims that’s what I did to her…

She also said that it’s just not a good decision for me to go see anyone late at night because that’s why I have kid now. Meanwhile she’s still creeping late at night. Anyway it just really bothered me that she’s trying to control what I do just because I need her help. I am done not seeing anyone but she’s not in control of that…