what would you do? red flag or no?

hi. i am talking to someone of 3 months (we are 23/26) , we call each other daily, text and as of the past two weeks been seeing each other on and off for two weeks (and for clarity we are taking it slow and do not want to sleep with each other)

valentines was really nice we saw each other and spent time together for a few hours. but the next day they tell me they’re going to get tested for depression and that they had a talk with their mom and was getting help. i supported them i talked to them i tried to check in on them make them laugh ask about their day etc the full 9 to my best ability.

today this morning my dad passed away.

they always told me to call during an emergency and it was really early but i am pretty positive they silenced me which is fine. it was really early. they even told me twice they’re here for me and asked once if i was okay. i don’t really have much to say and or to do. idk how to feel i’ve never lost a parent before. im being a little slower than usual when it comes to texting them today. suddenly they tell me they drop their child off so they can go to their friends house because they were depressed or something like that and needed to get out. we haven’t really talked all day either on top of it and when we have it was mainly about them and what they were doing and that was okay for a little but it was a pretty dry conversation.

i just wanted to have some company without talking is that wrong of me ?

am i wrong for seeing them in a different light ? am i being insensitive? am i looking too much into it ? is it a red flag they stepped out on me while i sit here conflicted over my parents passing ?