Moms opinion about my relationship

I live with my bf, i moved out of my parents last year. I visit here and there and recently she's telling me i need to end the relationship because she thinks he needs to give me money weekly. I just got my bachelors and i am looking for jobs, my bf got his last year. We are both planning on going for our masters. If i need anything he always gets it for me and he caters to me. He does our laundry and cooks and i also cook here and there. I dont ask him to do these things, thats the kind of man he is, he enjoys it. We also like to chill at home, take walks and go on dates here and there. We don't do clubbing or parties or bars. My mom thinks that im wasting my time. She constantly compares me to her friends daughters saying "oh she's 21 like you but its ok if she's pregnant again because her bf gives her money every week and shes working as an uber driver but its ok because hes a good guy since he gives her money" mind you i dont have kids and i have an iud and she knows that. Or when she says " my other friend's daughter got pregnant and her bf didn't want to work so she's now in a shelter with the baby, dont get pregnant" even though she knows i am well protected. My mom was also very strict with me, no going out, no phone after 9pm, only going to the deli or corner store, can't bring anybody to the house and couldn't go to nobody's house. Im ranting because it upsets me. I am young and I am starting to build my life, i don't see the point of being single, going partying or clubbing, meeting new guys etc. Plus my bf treats me well and he's committed, he encourages me to pursue my career. She said that im having sex for free with him, she doesn't like him much because he drinks and i don't. It's like everything i do is not enough for her, she had a problem with my exes because they didn't want to work or go to college so now i have someone different its a problem. She was always adamant about getting my bachelor's so now that i did and im unemployed looking for jobs it's still a problem. During college i was doing unpaid internships because it was required to graduate. It's annoying having to hear stuff like this from her and its affecting my mood.