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Bc the more I think about it the more it’s making me mad tbh. Long story short I been seeing this guy for a couple months and his BM really isn’t involved in their child’s life like that but she comes every once in a blue moon to see their child and we don’t get much alone time obviously so he wants to come over tomorrow bc she’ll have their kid.

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Is there a history of him "doing something" with his ex whilst you guys have been together? Because if there isn't I don't see why you're even mentioning it. 
You should be secure enough in your relationship to trust that he won't step out, and if you're not that secure then you shouldn't be in the relationship.
The text, he seems to be making light I'm order to deflect - I don't see any reason for you getting mad. Does it bother you that he has a child with another woman?

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I’m confused by this post, I feel like it’s missing context or something.

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Sometimes we as humans, hurt our own feelings lmao. I would avoid the topic all around unless there is reason, she is stopping by, etc. no need to bring her up bc any response is going to hurt your feelings when you’re already iffy about it. I wouldn’t like that response either, like oh but if she wasn’t a church girl? (Again that’s overthinking it but I get it) But men are clueless often and think comments like that bring us security when rlly it doesn’t. If you are serious w this man or plan to be, sit down and talk abt their relationship as coparents & where they at, how u feel, and what I expect. See if y’all on same page.

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Idk! By “don’t do nothing in the meantime” did you mean don’t masturbate? Or did you actually mean with the BM? I would be irritated he brought up the BM and “she is a church girl now” so what? If she wasn’t a church girl you would? I wouldn’t make it a big deal, I would just say, “ we shouldn’t play like that.” Like don’t bring her in your relationship.

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You’re out of line.

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I really can't see this working out.

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you’re just reading too much into it. it’s not a big deal. he was joking clearly

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