What should I do not to hurt his feelings?

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I feel like I’m getting mad over something stupid. My fiancé leaves for work very early like 5am. I do not have to get up for at least 3 more hours or when I’m not working it’s worse. It’s very sweet, but every morning at 5am he comes to my side of the bed to kiss me goodbye. That’s very nice, but he kisses my face over and over and over and says things to me. It wakes me up every day and I can’t get back to sleep. Then by 7:30-8am my eyes are closing but I have to get ready. It sets me off for the day and I get so angry. How do I nicely tell him to leave me alone in the morning? I have a sleep disorder and I need my sleep. I wish he’d just quietly give me one quick light kiss. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but it’s making me so cranky.

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Just tell him exactly what you told us as nicely as you possibly can.

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I actually feel like that's quite rude of your partner. My husband used to leave for work before I would wake up and yes he would kiss me as he got out of bed but he'd never do anything that would purposely wake me up or try to speak to me.
I'd just have a conversation to let him know that whilst you're happy for him to give you a goodbye kiss you don't want everything else as it wakes you up and then you can't get back to sleep and it's starting to impact you. Hopefully it's completely unintentional and once he's made aware he will stop

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I'd politely ask him to give you a simple kiss on the head because you've been waking up from all of the kisses and can't fall back asleep. My husband used to accidentally wake me up every morning while saying by to me because he'd get back into bed and cuddle with me for a bit. I had to politely ask him to stop.

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Yes, I would just let him know how I feel, try to do it in a way that's clear without focusing on what his doing but moreso on how it's affecting you... Because like it's 5 am that's too early... Like I understand he's trying to be sweet and affectionate but that's like too early 🥹🥹🥹 maybe if it were closer to your waking hour then fine but you gotta your sleep.

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What should I do not to hurt his feelings?

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