Men😒

Just the other day I was shopping and I found amazing deals on some lingerie so I decided to buy a few cute pieces to surprise my man. I was so excited I immediately started planning on how I was gonna show him. Part of me was ready to just show him straight outta the shopping bag but I wanted it so be more sexy. So I took an everything shower, actually blow dried my hair, and put the set on. I wore a big tshirt and pants to cover it up while we chilled for a while but then he wanted to take a nap. This seemed like the perfect time to me cause we’re gonna be in bed anyway. When we got into the room I took off the shirt and pants but he didn’t really notice as he was fixing the bed. Then we got in bed and started joking around which led to me getting up at one point and he still didn’t notice. After we stopped joking he turned over to sleep and I was like wow he really didn’t notice me wearing this lingerie. Btw I’ve worn lingerie before but not super often and I don’t have any in this color. Well at this point I’m kinda irritated so I told him he doesn’t even notice me. Which he was confused at first but the blanket had fallen down a bit so he finally realized. He starts saying oh you got a new bra and it’s cute and asking me to turn so he can see it better. He touches it for a min or so then goes back to regular cuddling. It really hurt my feelings. It made me feel like I’m not sexy anymore. I’ve gained a lot of weight the past few months and it’s been bringing my confidence down so stuff like that really gets to me. I mean maybe he just wasn’t in the mood but if I had my girl dress up for me I feel like I’d immediately be in the mood.