He was persistent- but do you think it’s safe?

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My FWB didn’t want to use a condom 2-3 days ago when we messed around, I had a positive opk as well and let him know.
 We did go raw, but he did pull out & cum on my stomach.
 Do you think with him being so persistent, there was an alternative motive behind him wanting to go raw? This was the first time we linked up in a WHILE.
 When I say alternative motive- he knew I was ovulating and wanted to go raw, was persistent on not using a condom, do you think he got anything in me? Or was this purely innocent and he just wanted to “feel me?”

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You’re both irresponsible if you’re trying to avoid pregnancy. I’ve gotten pregnant twice with the pullout method, it’s not a reliable way to prevent pregnancy

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He just doesn’t care and doesn’t want to wear condoms at all, doesn’t sound like it’s specifically just bc you may be ovulating. He’s not thinking of the consequences and doesn’t care about you

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no, guys don’t want to use condoms because it “feels better”. you agreed to it, he pulled out. why are you looking for someone to blame when you agreed?

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Im confused. You knew you were ovulating and knew he was persistent on not using a condom. You could have simply told him to use a condom or you two can try when youre out of your fertile window. Yall both knew what you were doing, so no he did not have ulterior motive. Yall both were just being irresponsible.

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There is nothing innocent about this. You told him no. He coerced you. Do not keep this scum in your life.

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Sounds like he understood the risk and really wanted to go raw. I don’t put extra feelings and emotions on men because just from what I read while he would take care of his responsibilities he just wanted raw sex, periodt.

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He didn’t do anything, you literally said he pulled out. You do need to go get tested for STDS though.

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It kinda looks like you want a baby & he just wants to have sex with you… you shouldn’t be having sex with someone who says getting you pregnant “is what it is” & y’all will “just take care of it, if it happens”.. having a baby is a BIG deal, not a minor happening. From these texts, I would presume he just didn’t want to wear a condom, because any guy will tell you it feels better raw (although a lot of guys are more responsible than this) if I were you I would be concerned about STDs.. from these texts it does not seem like he uses condoms often.

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If it'sso important to you to avoid pregnancy, you should avoid sex during your fertile window altogether especially if you're not using condoms but I feel like even if you are you should still avoid it.

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You guys are literally joking about it, this should be a walking birth control ad. You said wear a condom, he said no, you said “oh ok” yet neither want a baby now. Babies aren’t toys yall. A lifetime commitment and pricey, he can go “raw” knock ya up, and still walk away as if it never happened. You.. can’t. Foolish, everyone knows people get pregnant from Pre come all the time. “Giving in” to the dude was the first mistake, anyone begging for it is trash. And simply saying they have with others is even weirder

He was persistent- but do you think it’s safe?

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