Thoughts?

So this yr it’s 10yrs w/my babies’ father -kids ages 7/6/2.. When we moved to this new neighborhood I introduced him to my mom friends where he got to meet “certain single dads” who’ve been a cancer in our relationship!

In November another loser left his fam! Now this one wants out as well.. This group of guys go out to car racing in the middle of the day/ paint ball fighting/ nonsense house parties where they gamble/drink till 4am.. they’re in self formed “leagues” taking off half of the weekend..

I’m operating like a single mom for half a decade. I’ve shlepped my family from Europe to come help, but at this point they’re fed up and don’t want to babysit my kids anymore! He won’t let me go back to EU with our kids where I have help.. so he’s basically treating our home as a hotel/restaurant not talking to me for a month now!! Talking only thru txt!

Kids are asking questions about why we don’t talk/hang out and he lies to them saying “daddy’s got to work a lot!!!”

Wtf am I supposed to do? Oh and cherry on top WE’RE NOT LEGALLY MARRIED:)

Ps. Yes I’m a US citizen and no my kids don’t have dual citizenship.

Ideas please 🙏